Archive for June 2017

Chinese Dating And The Concept Of Chinese Virgin Complex

A lot of western men using sites often feel exasperated by the fact that they are not able to hold a free and frank discussion about sex with their dating partners. This is because they are raised in an environment where people consider sex to be a natural phenomenon in the life of individuals, and hence do not shy away from talking about it without feeling embarrassed. However, sex within the Chinese societies is considered to be an extremely private and intimate affair, and hence is not a topic for open discussion, especially when it comes to talking about the sexual experience of women.

According to traditional Chinese customs, virginity was considered to be the most important virtue of a female in order to get married. This concept, which is also referred to as the Chinese virginity concept made it necessary for Chinese females to remain pure and untouched until the day of their marriage. Consequently a women believed to have been involved in sexual alliances prior to her marriage was considered worthless and deficient and hence unsuitable for marriage. With the ancient Chinese society being clearly male dominated, the same rule was however not applicable to men who could indulge in any number of sexual relationship before and even after marriage. It is in keeping with this custom that men making enquiries related to the sexual life of their Chinese dating partners is not considered polite or even reasonable.

Despite the significant changes in the attitudes of both men and women within the Chinese society in the past couple of decades, the tradition concept of virginity is still prevalent in this eastern society. So while these oriental men are a lot more tolerant towards the use of online Chinese dating sites by their future wives, they are not too comfortable with the idea of their having explored any type of sexual relationships. For most Chinese men, the idea of perfect woman is still related to her virginity and sexual experiences.

What’s Your Love Language

Did you know there are actually five languages of love? That people express and measure their love and its depth by different means? And the way you communicate your love, and wish to receive it back may be totally different to you partners?

If you have never heard of this concept before, it’s understandable that the five languages of love may seem like a totally foreign language in itself. But let’s put it this way. Have you ever been in relationship, or been witness to a couple who seem to utterly and completely love each other but just can’t seem to get along and make it work? That despite all their best efforts to communicate they continue to fight, feel let down and unloved, and disappointed? That at times things are so desperate that it seems like they are speaking in a different language with each other? Well, it’s probably because they are!

When a couple has conflicting love languages, or does not understand the love communication of their partner and the need to nurture that form of love, sometimes its inevitable that some relationships just do not work out. Learning how to understand and read your partners love language can bring down many road blocks and dead ends so to speak, and turn feelings of frustration with one another in to a warm, loving and completely satisfied relationship

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Cougar Dating in the Uk

Increasing numbers of women in their thirties, forties and even fifties are dismissing the age difference and searching for a date not as old as themselves – they are called cougars and are not shy about pushing themselves and dating younger men./p>

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It is a lot easier than you imagine – ever heard ofZbeen told about this little thing called online dating? You don’t have to be social butterfly who is impeccably dressed and experienced at pickup women – you can do it all online. There are specialized websites where hot cougar mothers are searching for younger men (often called “cubs”). What you ought to do is find the correct site, signup and make yourself known to the community. Adult females have a great deal to offer, and you can can you imagine the level of experience they can bring to the bedroom. Dating a more mature woman is a requirement for all younger men as they will show you a couple of lessons that you will not hear in school.

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Do You Want to Get Back Your Ex Girlfriend

For some men when their girlfriends left, they will go all the way out to get back their girlfriend without first understanding the reason she pulled away. Human beings are social animals and hence they cannot live without relationships. Friends, family or foes nor girl friends or lovers need to be existent in ones life. Lack of such relationships creates depression, frustration and loneliness. A man has to be always dependant on somebody close to his heart to give him emotional and moral support.

At different stages this need for a close relationship varies. During initial stages when he is very young he needs the love and care of his mother, then as he grows his priorities change and so is the need and he finds other women as girl friends or lovers to strike a balance in life.

From his adolescence every man looks for more than an emotional and moral friend. He needs physical intimacy too and so gets into intimate relationship with the opposite sex. This relationship is so strong that when it breaks at times because of lack of understanding or compatibility he cannot bear it nor cope with it.

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Interracial Dating with the best Opportunities

Until recently, the phrase “interracial couple” typically meant one thing: Black men and White women. Not anymore. Well clearly, there is a brand-new wave sweeping over our traditional notions of interracial dating as supported by the recent real-life personal ads. Whoopi Goldberg and Eddie Gold, Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubrey, model Iman and David Bowie, Marie Johnson and Marty Grey are the members of Hollywood glitterati the new wave celebrity trend Black womens lives being touched by interracial dating and marriage.

According to the U.S. Bureau of Census, in 1987 there were 56,000 Black women married to White me which is 11,000 more than in1980. These figures confirm that the number of Black women marrying White men is both extensive and growing. It also shows that the White men dating interracially are defining their own standard of beauty beautiful Black women who don’t look like Marilyn Monroe and Brooke Shields.

Here is an example: the first time Shadoe Stevens, (star of Hollywood Squares and host of American Top 40, the most-listened-to pop-music radio show in the world) saw his wife, Beverly, a former international model, the fireworks, he says, were explosive and instant. “The first time I saw her,” says Shadoe, “I couldn’t move. She was so beautiful and I don’t mean just physically. She had this incredible aura about her, it was in her eyes. When I looked at her there was this great blinding flash in the universe. I kept staring at her and thinking, I’ve got to get to know her. I never thought about color and had no feeling about it one way or the other. I guess the feeling was mutual. Beverly later told me she had to get out of there because she felt like she was 14 all over again. It was quite overwhelming.” And after meeting her officially, they have never been apart since then.

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